Great Is The Person Who Leaves A Great Void When He Leaves

Grande is not the person who takes up the most space in a chair. Great is the person who fills your emotional void without asking for anything in return, and the one who leaves you a thousand breaths and memories when you no longer have his presence.

We are not just talking about physical loss, about death. People let go of many loved ones throughout our lives for different reasons. It may have been a relationship that made you happy but, under certain circumstances, it was better to break up.

And those who for work reasons must leave our side also leave us their absence. In the same way, they mark a void in our day to day and a nostalgia that we have to get used to, and that we must alleviate with those calls, with those daily and needy messages.

XXL-sized people who fill your void

In life it is worth surrounding ourselves with XXL-sized people, those bigger inside than outside who fill your void with joys, closeness and positivity with the utmost humility and reciprocity.

And now tell us … Do you have someone like that by your side? Or is it already in your memory because it is not by your side? Let’s reflect on it today.

The emptiness of not having someone “great” next to you

Let’s talk first about losses, about those difficult absences that we never get used to. All absence implies, after all, a type of mourning, and that is something we have to get used to, almost necessarily, throughout our lives: that nothing remains, that we are mere passengers of this wonderful way.

• If someone was great in your life, it is because they knew how to make you happy, and that is a skill in which not many people are “specialized”.

• We are also clear that the one who made us the happiest is the one who will make us suffer the most when we do not have him by our side. However, it is necessary to keep his exceptional legacy once we have been through the duel.

• Any loss, whether it is a death or a separation, implies spending a time of recollection where sadness is experienced. You have to vent it, accept it and assume it.

• When we have passed the duel, it is necessary to fill the void. And we will do it as a tribute. Make that person so great the honor of smiling for her again, of being happy for her memory.

   Because it taught you what joy is and to stop practicing it because we do not have them by our side would be like offending them, like taking them down. Do not do it.

Don’t avoid it. Give love, live with hope and tranquility knowing that everything you experienced was worth it. Because the best gift they have given you is to meet these great people of soul, mind and heart who paint our world with nobility.

Practice “greatness” in your day to day

It is not only good to surround ourselves with noble people, the kind that do not leave any emptiness in our heart, but fill it with positive things. It is necessary that we also learn to “be great.” We explain how.

Practice humility

• Recognize the other person as part of you, and do it with humility, respect and simplicity. A life that is carried out from simplicity, avoids artifice and many daily worries.
• Remember that “less is more”. Do not see the world as a stage full of people, but of people to learn from with humility, respect and harmony.
• Avoid “getting attached” to material things. Move lightly on your back and full of positive emotions, where there is no resentment or hatred.

Avoid leaving scars to other people, or that emptiness in the heart loaded with bitterness that complicates coexistence even more. Leave traces, positive traces with which you will also enrich yourself.

Now, we know that it is not always easy to get along with everyone. Therefore, it will always be good for you to practice emotional economy:

• Defuse grudges through forgiveness and distance. If someone offends you or limits your personal growth, stop nurturing that bond. Put distance but don’t hate. Do not hold a grudge or it will be difficult for you to turn the page.

• Offer positive emotions: joy, optimism, enthusiasm … However, be aware that, just as you offer it, you also deserve to receive positive emotions.

Happiness is in balance, in “growing” a little more each day through these noble thoughts. Life is too short to fill the void of bitterness. Open your eyes to the illusion and surround yourself with people who are worthwhile. Those that you miss when they are no longer with you because, then, they will be the best treasure in your heart.