Whoever Wants To Be Shows It By Being

Who cares about you, who really appreciates you shows it by being there with a simple call, a message or other unexpected action that takes you by surprise.  Nevertheless, We continue to give away our time and our worries to people who are not worth it. .

Show what you feel, stop words

Saying “I love you”, “I need you”, “I love you” or “I like you” is relatively easy. But where are the acts that accompany those words? Sometimes you just need to do a simple exercise to find out if someone really cares about you. Let’s plug our ears and just watch.

Probably, what we are observing astonishes us and, at the same time, illustrates us about a situation before which we have been blinded. All because we have given immense value to words that did not have their implementation and this, on many occasions, leads us to suffer in vain.

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We believe all those excuses from those who do not show their presence for this and for that. We justify the absences because we want to be understanding with the other.

However, this can undermine our self-esteem, do us a lot of harm and who will then be the one to help us? We will only have to look in the mirror. There is the only person who has always been and who has considered so many lies true.

The voluntary bandage

It is not the first time that we realize how blind we have been to a situation. However, time and again we go to that blindfold that allows us to see things the way we want.

Actually looking for another situation, we fall into one that hurts us, but because we have allowed it!

We should have already learned to open our eyes from the beginning to appreciate whether or not that person next to us demonstrates what he proclaims so much with words.

Let’s take a simple example, although not easy. Let’s imagine two people who fall in love, but one of them is married. The circumstance does not have an easy solution. However, the married person gives the other hope that they are going to separate, that they will soon be together.

What happen? Months go by, even a year and the situation remains the same. The person who has no commitments continues to believe in the words of the other who is not acting according to what he affirms so much.

Although it hurts, it is important to do what we mentioned above. Cover your ears, open your eyes, and finally see clearly what is really happening.

It is not about looking to blame, but about stopping being in a situation full of false hopes  that prevent us from flying free and living our own life.

Show what you care about

Show how much you value me, what you care about me, what you love me with actions. But do not fool me anymore with empty words that do not have their implementation.

Enough of believing and letting ourselves be carried away by hopes that show us a desired reality, but that will never come to be true.

Let’s no longer make the same old mistake. Let’s open our eyes once and for all, from the beginning and do not opt ​​for the easy alternative of that blindfold full of expectations and illusions that will never come true.

Let’s make awareness of this learning for everyone. Let us also show others that the forgiveness we say is sincere and that it will be consistent with our actions. The words remain mere empty verbalizations. What really has meaning are our actions.